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Saturday 19 November 2016
ex Zenith Bank staff, John Edobor, accused of breaking his wife's leg, finally speaks
John Edobor, the former Zenith Bank Plc. staff who was accused of hitting his wife Ivie Edobor, has taken to Facebook to share his own side of the story.
Edobor shared his story with several documents attached, claimed that Ivie got pregnant for her lover, one Matthew Agbaire.
Edobor also shared documents that showed that Ivie was married in 2002 which he was until this incident, unaware of.
Read what he wrote below:
Ivie Angela Edobor who lives in Surulere, Lagos, got married at Saint Dominic’s Catholic Church,
356, Herbert Macaulay Street, Yaba, Lagos on Saturday, 30th June, 2007
at 12noon. We did the traditional marriage ceremony at the father’s
compound at Abisogun Estate, Alafia Sari-Iganmu, off Lagos Badagry
Expressway on a Thursday, 28th June, 2007. And as well as the marriage
Registry in Lagos at Ikoyi on the 17th January, 2007 (all the marriage
documents are attached).
Ivie and I are blessed with three
lovely children (three girls – senior 9 years old; second – 7 years and 4
years old respectively). Ivie and I had lived together (with love) all
these years in peace devoid of rancour and acrimony.
Ivie Edobor once worked for Stanbic IBTC Bank Plc.
until she resigned her appointment on the 11th July, 2011 in view of
the fact that she was been accused of collecting kickbacks from the
bank’s contractors in order for her to perform her duties as
administrative staff. She exhibited these traits of fraud, corrupt
practices and financial misappropriation which led to her termination
and dismissal from Econet (now Airtel)… She was dismissed for lack of
integrity due to lies in addition to her serial borrowing from her many
colleagues.
When Ivie resigned from Stanbic IBTC
Bank in 2011, (find attached her resignation letter) in order for her
not to be at home doing nothing, we both had a discussion on (the next
line of action) and then she suggested that she wanted to start
importing diapers from the United Kingdom (UK) and start distributing
and selling in retail which I obliged her by giving her initial start-up
capital of about N500, 000 (Five Hundred Thousand Naira) and as the
year progressed, we noticed that the business was moving I had to borrow
money from friends and with my personal savings to inject into the
business which amounted to about N8 million (Eight Million Naira Only).
Every year, it was our agreement
that audit be done to ensure that the business is actually doing well
and to make sure tax is paid to Government as well. This was actually
adhered to in 2012 and in 2013, I noticed that Ivie had refused to call
the accountant to come audit her books. I kept insisting on the audit to
be done since she knows the accountant and have his contacts and
moreover where we were staying in Ajah at No 76, House 3, Street X,
Abraham Adesanya Estate, Ajah, Lagos, was not far from where the
accountant was actually living in Ajah.
This persisted until September 17th
2014 when strange faces of people I had never met or spoken with before
kept coming to knock at my gate as early as 5a.m. every morning to
demand for their moneys from Ivie and when the amount was added
together, it came to about N25,204,250 (Twenty Five Million, Two Hundred
and Four Thousand, Two Hundred and Fifty Naira Only). Please see
attached the list of people she was owing and these people are available
if you which to speak with them. Most of them said Ivie told them that
her dad was sick and she needs money to treat her very sick dad. Just
like she has said on FB that I don’t give her money….
Despite all these borrowings, Ivie
could not account for what the sum of N25, 204,250 was spent on and till
date she has not being able to explain in clear terms what the money
was used for. She could not explain to me or her family members how she
spent such huge sum of money. It became clear of recent after two years
that she actually borrowed these moneys to save face from shame since
Matthew Agbaire who she was dating was threatening to blackmail her if
she could not part with money anytime Matthew Agbaire requested for any
sum to use for himself.
On 11 October 2014, one of the Ivie’s creditors known as Tolu and her family members, came to the house when I had gone for a training, dragged my sister (Otekpen)
out of the bathroom when she was having her bath and assaulted and
humiliated her. The matter was reported by me to the Nigerian Police
Station, Ogombo, Ajah, Lagos and the matter was recorded in crime diary
S/NO 80, Time 2055 HRS. (go and verify for yourselves).
When the threat of violence was
becoming too much, I advised Ivie to relocate to her father’s house
temporarily till a time that the entire or substantial part of the
indebtedness would have been defrayed and the threat of violence most
especially on the children of the marriage would stop.
After Ivie left our matrimonial home
as agreed, we were still meeting on Fridays to Sundays at the
matrimonial home in Ajah to discuss our family affairs. And we were
during this period still performing our marital responsibility to each
other. (evidence to support this assertion with printed copies of
correspondence between us and her pregnancy.)
On November 24th, 2015, Ivie was
pregnant for me with twins which she confirmed severally in our chat
(see attached for your perusal and confirmation the Ultra Sound Scan
Report for the LMP and EDD) and the pregnancy grow for 5 (five) months
and the babies had become 5(five) months old in June.
Since Ivie was living in Surulere
despite my several plead to the father to allow Ivie and the children to
come join me in Yaba notwithstanding that Ivie and I looked for the
apartment in Yaba for us to live as one family again, Ivie decided to
stay back in surulere and every Fridays she would come to sleep with me
while on weekdays she kept sleeping with Matthew Agbaire who is married
with his own kids.
Until May 2016, when my kids where
on midterm break, and they came to spend the holiday with me in Yaba
that two of my children told me that, every night, one uncle Matthew was
always coming to the house to sleep in mummy’s room till the next day
and he will buy them Suya. And when I asked Ivie she initially denied
until I showed her a video clip… that she then admitted (see attached
our chat for your perusal) and at this time Ivie was still pregnant.
Since Ivie knew the consequences of
her action she begged and pleaded that, she would need to go for
confession which she did in June 5th, 2016 at Saint Dominic Catholic
Church, Yaba. There she promised the reverend father Felix never to go
back to such life again. Two days later I received a phone call from the
house help that, Matthew came again to take her out and did not return
until late in the night. When I asked Ivie she denied and she beat up
the house help as well as collected her phone from her.
At this time Ivie had threatened she
was going to flush the babies since I am doubting the paternity of the
twin. Because, I asked Ivie if you are pregnant for me and still kept
sleeping with another man (Matthew Agbaire) so who own the babies? We
would need to do a DNA test to actually know who their father is.
Three days later, Ivie and Matthew
Agbaire went to abort the babies since she was worried that I kept
insisting on the DNA of the children. When I asked Ivie what happened to
the babies she said she could not face the shame of having bastard
children which am not ready to father and this kept me worried up till
now since Ivie could kill children that were already formed (7months)
babies.
I spoke with the father who lives in
Orile, in Lagos and even went to see him about it and all I got from
the father was he will talk to Ivie and two of her aunties and I tried
calling her mother who lives in UK but she would not pick her calls and
as well told my family members about it too.
On what happened in June 19th 2016,
incident that got Ivie admitted at Tokin Hospital for broken leg,
contrary to claims by Ivie, she actually got injured during a scuffle
between myself and Matthew Agbaire who brought out a hammer from the
tool box in his car to fight me. Ivie at sighting me started shouting
‘ole, ole’ for the security men to come and kill when Matthew brought
her back home past one (1:00a.m.) in the morning while the children were
left at home with a girl of about 13years old to care for them while
Ivie and Matthew went to a hotel to have sex.
Ivie in an attempt to allow Matthew
to run away was holding on to my hands backward and in the course of my
struggle, Ivie and I fell to the ground and then, Matthew wanted to
seize the opportunity to slam the hammer in his hand on me which I
dodged and then I noticed he was not relenting the second time after
first strike which actually hit ivie, and then she shouted, when I saw
him trying to raise his hand again, I had to row over Ivie and stood on
my feet before the security men came to rescue the situation.
Matthew quickly rushed her to a
hospital in Surulere perhaps the same hospital the twin was aborted by
Ivie and Matthew. Ivie has consistently told people that I have not been
taking care of the children school fees (find attached the receipts of
my children school fees till date for your perusal) and that because
they are girls and not boys that was the reason I drove her out of the
matrimonial home. This statement is reckless and unfortunate because I
love my daughters and in several instances I had used prominent woman
who are role models like Okonjo-Iweala to buttress my stand on this even
to her. I do know for sure my children will grow up to be greater than
men and their knowledge will be sort after around the world. She has
push out false information to the public for her to continuously gain
sympathy from the public, press, bloggers, the civil society and human
rights activist.
In another case, she has said I came
prepared with the intention to kill her that night she was injured by
Matthew, with a knife and of recent a dagger and crowbar or wheel
spanner to attack her. And I keep wondering with the inconsistency the
tools she keep naming that I used. The fact is, I came into Lagos that
night (18th June, 2016) from school in Ile – Ife at about 9p.m. with my
school bag and book in it and my car was parked at the stadium where I
drove to her house which is a stone throw away from her house and I did
not get Yaba before going to see her that night since we had agreed to
meet that night. Matthew was the one who works for a construction
company and had his tool box where he brought out his big hammer he used
on Ivie.
It will shock you to know that Ivie was married to one Benedith Jatto
on the 17th December 2002, a document she used in her NYSC and equally
in her former place of employment while she was working with Airtel
Nigeria. I got to know and see all of these when this issue came up and a
copy of the document is available for your perusal. And up till date
that married has not been dissolved which means Ivie is legally married
to two men.
Ivie is doing all these for her to
hide her shame and the face of Matthew Agbaire a father of two who is
still married to his wife, and work in Centrix Allied Limited
who is the brain behind her termination of the twin and the her broken
leg. It is unfortunate that Ivie is acting this way because as my wife
and mother of my beautiful children this is not the way I planned for
us.
As a responsible father I have consistently played my role and provided for them to the best of my ability all that they needed.
So please tell me how I went wrong….
You can imagine my shock to find out that I am her 2nd husband…was it
wrong of me to have encouraged and empowered my wife? Please tell me
which man will take it…she only shouted out so the issue of the children
she killed will not come limelight.
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Toke Makinwa Talks On Falling In Love Again Says, “My Current Status Will Shock You” @tokstarr
In an exclusive interview with
Kemiashefonlovehaven, Toke
revealed why she wrote the book:
Why
and when did you decide to write a book?
I wish I woke up
one day and decided writing a book but no. People have different stories and
different inspiration behind why they did certain things and toed certain paths.
Writing a book never really crossed my mind because I saw authors as those
retiring. But I had a challenging time last year 2015 and while I was busy
trying to survive, I started documenting a lot. There were days I felt good and,
I wrote something. Also there were days I did voice notes. There were times I
allowed the bad days take its toll.
It occurred to me at a point that I could write a book
but I didn’t take it seriously. But when people started telling me that they
prayed for me and that God told them that I would write a book, I started
thinking about it. By the start of 2016, I was still fiddling with the idea but
I wasn’t certain what it would be. But I remembered what I went through last
year and saw it as a good way of making others especially women, have who and
where they can turn to, whenever going through the same ordeal. That way, I will not only deal with the
situation but help someone else overcome. The society sees the woman as a
superwoman who runs her home, takes care of the kids, husband, runs her
business successfully and nobody asks her, “Are you Ok”? If she doesn’t succeed
in any of the many segments of her life, she isn’t seen as a superwoman.
What
is the book all about?
“On Becoming’ is a journey of a girl who is trying to
make sense of life and its curves, its turns, ups and downs and turning the
negatives to positives. I want people to read this book because there are many
things to find out about Toke. They don’t know Toke. It’s important for me to
tell my story and not allow the world tell it for me. It’s a spiritual journey
indeed.
Are
there moments you cried?
Yes, because I am human. I have my down times but not
accepting defeat is what I don’t joke with. You need the mindset of not
accepting defeat. It’s not running away from what happened but saying, ‘what
can I do to save it’?
After
your crashed marriage, are you in love now?
(Laughs) I can’t say that now but in my book, "On Becoming," you will
discover my current status. You will be shocked at how current and open I am on
issues of love etc.
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Folorunsho Alakija celebrates her husband as they count down to 40th wedding anniversary
Only God could have given me a husband for almost forty years in marriage that is still growing strong. His name forever be praised! #FolorunsoAlakija
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“Every name has a meaning and Oduduwa is no different; it simply means, ‘he came out black’ - Oba Abdul Rasheed Adewale Akanbi Telu 1
The Oluwo of Iwo, Oba Abdul Rasheed
Adewale Akanbi Telu 1, is elated over the birth
of his son, Oduduwa. In a chat with Saturday Beats, the monarch said
“God always converses with me and I have
a personal relationship with Him. The day my wife conceived, I told her
that she was pregnant and I told her she would give birth to a boy
whose name would be Oduduwa,” he said.
The monarch told Saturday Beats that he
named his child, Oduduwa, after the progenitor of the Yoruba race,
because it was an instruction from God.
He said, “We named the child Oduduwa
because God is trying to tell the people that if Oduduwa was alive
today, he would serve only one God. Oduduwa only served one God and that
is the reason God told me to give my child that name. There are a lot
of ways God converses with me and He was the one that told me that I
would become a king no matter what and that came to pass. If God told me
to name my son Oduduwa what else would I do? That name is our name.
“Every name has a meaning and Oduduwa is
no different; it simply means, ‘he came out black’. We should not be
ashamed to name our kids after our great progenitors. The name should
even be on the ground a lot but nobody is bearing the name because
people believe it is a fetish name. Oduduwa never worshipped any idol.
All the idols in Yoruba land came after Oduduwa so there is strong
evidence that Oduduwa never worshipped any other God.”
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Friday 18 November 2016
Mimiko Distributes Rice In Okitipupa To 70,000 Women
The Eto Igbe Ayo programme, which is aimed at cushioning the effect of the harsh economic situation of the nation on the women and their families, brought together women from different parts of the Ondo Southern Senatorial District at the flag-off ceremony held at Okitipupa Local Government secretariat, on Friday.
It would be recalled that One Hundred Thousand women had benefitted from the first phase of the programme which was flagged off in July 2016.
Addressing the beneficiaries at the occasion, Governor Mimiko said the items for distribution were rice and beans, adding that the programme was meant for all residents of the state irrespective of political affiliation.
He explained that the use of the State Residency Card also known as Kaadi Igbe Ayo was introduced in the distribution of the various items in order to guard against fraud and multiple receipts by the beneficiaries.
According to him, with the second edition of the programme, a total of One Hundred and Seventy Thousand (170,000) women across Ondo State had benefitted so far from the programme.
The Governor said the second phase, unlike the first phase which was solely funded by the state government, is a joint programme between the State and Local Governments as part of efforts at addressing poverty and hunger occasioned by the economic recession.
The wife of the Governor, Olukemi Mimiko, who handled the distribution of the Food items to the beneficiaries, commended the State and Local Government authorities for embarking on the programme to ameliorate the plight of the various families in Ondo State.
She noted that whatever passes through women will surely benefit the entire family, hence the reason why the women were mostly targeted in the Food Palliative programme.
Mrs Mimiko however urged women in the state to deliver the positive message in their various homes in the interest of the entire sunshine state.
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Mashonda Joins Alicia Keys, Swizz Beatz & The Kids For "Blended Family" Video
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I’m Not Your Boring And Predictable “Wife Material” - Sonia Ogbonna
Sonia Ogbonna said
“I break the norms and I create them. I can not just “obey”. I don’t “serve”. I do MAGIC. I have superpowers. I change lives around me. I am my own kind of a woman.
Imperfect,far from Saint,I am a trouble and a challenge. Im not your boring and predictable “wife material”.
I have seen all shades of life and I don’t pretend – I embrace my own individual nature and that is what I am ,the most unconditionally loved for by the only person in this whole Universe who can deal with me without being my weakness but my deepest strength.”
“I break the norms and I create them. I can not just “obey”. I don’t “serve”. I do MAGIC. I have superpowers. I change lives around me. I am my own kind of a woman.
Imperfect,far from Saint,I am a trouble and a challenge. Im not your boring and predictable “wife material”.
I have seen all shades of life and I don’t pretend – I embrace my own individual nature and that is what I am ,the most unconditionally loved for by the only person in this whole Universe who can deal with me without being my weakness but my deepest strength.”
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WATCH Wole Faroun on Under 40 CEOs
Wole is the Founder and Managing Director of Netplus Advisory.
Under 40 CEOs airs on TVC Entertainment Nigeria from 7.30pm on Friday.
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He actually has better taste than me, so if I picked something else, I always go with him because he always has better taste." - @adriennebailon
Mrs. Houghton married her Christian gospel artist fiancé Israel Houghton today (Friday) at 7p at the Hotel Plaza Athénée in Paris.she tells E!:
"I got engaged in Paris and I had a flight home back to L.A.—it's a very long flight—I pretty much planned the whole wedding on the plane ride home, so I'm good!"Adrienne tells E!:
"We agree on everything. That's weird," she joked of making their wedding day decisions. "He actually has better taste than me, so if I picked something else, I always go with him because he always has better taste."
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Rita Dominic's hair line @ritaUdominic
Rita Dominic Launches Luxury Human Hair Business
According to reports, Rita has collaborated with Nigerian Canadian beauty entrepreneur Blessing Kenneth to produce an exclusive luxury human hair collection, which will feature a number of her signature hairstyles.
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Still the same Amstel Malta just New Packaging @NAFDAC @AmstelMalta
I think Amstel Malta have publicly declared that there is no fake Amstel Malta it is an adjustment repackaging or branding in compliance with SON &NAFDAC guidelines .
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Dbanj has been sued by technology company, MindHub for owing over N100, 000, 000 naira.
D'Banj
According to Pulse, the singer has been sued by technology company, MindHub for owing over N100, 000, 000 naira.MindHub invested the sum of $500,000 and N20 Million for the organisation of concerts. Apparently, the contract states that the 35-year-old would be personally liable for the payment of the sums of money in the event of D'Kings Media failure to pay.
When Dkings Men media failed to pay back, Mindhub Technologies called for the repayment from Dbanj.
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Mo'Cheddah, has clapped at a concerned social media followers for questioning the growth of her boobs.
Do you think the internet troll got what he deserved?
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Nigerian Boxer, Oluwafemi Oyeleye, Signs New Contract With Floyd Mayweather
Nigerian-born Oluwafemi Oyeleye has inked a new promotional contract with Mayweather Promotions.
Oyeleye, who won gold in the 69kg welterweight category at the 2015 All Africa Games has been training in United States.
According to information made available by the management of Mayweather Promotions, Oyeleye who has officially inked a deal to be a member of The Money Team, will make his professional debut at Sam’s Town Hotel & Gambling Hall in Las Vegas, Nevada on December 2.
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Toke Makinwa VS Adrienne Bailon Houghton in Elanred @elanred @tokstarr @adriennebailon
Rasheed Gbadamosi, Ragolis Chairman dies at age 72
Ragolis water chairman and a former Minister of National Planning , former chairman of Bank of Industry.
Chief Rasheed Gbadamosi is dead. Gbadamosi died yesterday at the age of 72. He was said to have suffered multiple strokes.
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‘by their food you shall know them.’ - Yemi Alade for @fader @yemialadee @taiyealiyu_
In 2015, she won the Best Female at the MTV African Music Awards, her 2016 album, Mama Africa,In October 2016, Yemi won the Best Female Act Awards at the MAMA Awards, making history.
hit No.1 on the continent’s iTunes chart, and she was named an ambassador for Africa Fashion Week in April
In an interview with FADER, Alade speaks on how she is bringing African cultures together.
ON if being half Yoruba and half Igbo helped her access different cultures
I couldn’t have put it better. Tribe is a very strong factor in Nigeria, and coming from two major tribes is a big plus for me. Personally, it’s helped me embrace both cultures, and you can see through the fact that it’s all just one culture. Just some different names attached to it and different languages.On how her new single “Tumbum” discusses how food is central to Nigerian culture.
In Nigeria, food isn’t just for consumption but is a cultural representation. Different states in the country are known for their indigenous delicacies. Permit me to say, ‘by their food you shall know them.’ It’s true that the “Tumbum” video only briefly sheds light on rural areas in Nigeria; I wanted it to be relatable for Africa as a whole.
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Thursday 17 November 2016
@AshleyGraham has her very own Barbie!
“We need to work together to redefine the global image of beauty and continue to push for a more inclusive world,” Ashley 27, said in a statement.
“I’m thrilled Barbie has not only evolved their product, but also has
continued to honor women who are pushing boundaries. It’s an honor to be
immortalized in plastic.”
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The Sports Illustrated: Swimsuit cover girl was also hands-on when it came to her Barbie’s build. “She
had to have her thighs touch. No ands, ifs or buts about it. And I
asked for cellulite but obviously plastic and cellulite don’t go hand in
hand,” she recently told The Hollywood Reporter.
“It was important that the Barbie
resembled me as much as possible. The thighs touching was one way to
show young girls that it’s okay for your thighs to touch, despite
society saying that a ‘thigh gap’ is more beautiful,” Ashley continued.
Source: Yahoo
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Alicia's relationship started out as an affair with Dean
Swizz posted:
Mashonda said