I know the pain I felt and will never wish that on an enemy - @Ozinna On Bullying

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Ozinna is making big strides in her career. The super fashion conscious daughter of Nkiru Anumudu, is a hit any day

#FlashbackFriday - Whenever the word bully comes up only one person comes to mind - I wasn't bullied up until university so believe me when I say it was strange. Just when I thought I had survived the crazy cycle of school and about to live the good life - she was right there. I can tell you of so many different scenarios because although it was 9 years ago, she made my entire first year of university so painful and I still feel it. I thought long and hard before doing this post as she is probably reading this, or will catch the wind of it (everyone around me knew she was a thorn in my flesh- literally) Think she derived joy from seeing me helpless? Yes. Did I die?? No . Did I grow from it ? Yes . Have I forgiven her? Lol stop asking too many questions,Z! Ha. Point of this mini rant is to say we need to be careful the sort of impact we have on people lives. As humans, it's our responsibility to leave this earth a better place. Just seen an article about bullies making a kid take his own life and it broke my little heart and I felt it all over again. Can't imagine the pain the kid felt to resort to taking his own life. Actually, I know the pain I felt and will never wish that on an enemy. I do believe in retrospect, she probably would not have done it if she knew the lasting/negative impact it'll have on my life. I'm happy to see she's found a life partner and would hope no one bullies her kids the way she did me. Sidebar : this doesn't need a sob/pity party, just was a basis to get my point about treating people right across. So, on a positive note, I'm just trying to be a ray of sunshine in as many lives as I can 🌞 #PeepMyFreshManYearSwagTho #MaybeThatsWhyIGotBullied #Ha #ItsAllLove #2008 #CutMyHairForUni #ThoughtItWasCoolLikeRihanna #FromFaceBookArchives #DidntKnowIKnewmyFBPassword


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