Remember how the controversial IG blog Gistlovers said that Ini Dima-Okojie sleeps with multiple married men and successfully kidnapped one of them, Abasi Eneobong, from his wife?
Abasi revealed in a lengthy Instagram post that he was previously married and now has 2 daughters.
He claims that he and his ex-wife divorced in 2018 and that the affection Ini Dima-Okojie has poured on him has helped him heal.
He wrote:
“Today’s post is about 2nd chances
Today is the last day of the last month of me being single as I
marry my baby next month. I was married before and have 2 girls (I used
to post about my girls but as more eyes came to my page I stopped
because as a father, protecting is my job). After 8 years of marriage (I
got married at 26) we filed for a divorce in 2018. We were young and
made mistakes and I had struggled with bouts of depression. 2018 was my
toughest year ever! Requesting a divorce was one of the toughest things I
ever did but it was about survival. I am not accusing anyone… just
speaking about my own struggles as a human being. Suffice it to say that
my life has been the stuff you read about in books and I kept it all
inside. Only those in my inner circle know my story and perhaps one day I
might write about it.
Now back to 2nd chances. Coming out of my earlier situation I never believed that I would remarry. I was wounded and hurt. I first reached out to Ini after we had commenced our divorce process via DM (we all know that story) but never met her in person till sometime in 2019. We started talking as friends and eventually started dating in the second half of 2019. (I remember when I told her about the circumstances of my divorce, her response was “that’s your version but I’m sure there’s another version that’s equally true”). But wounded people wound people. And every time I saw we would get close I would end the relationship because I was afraid of committing. Yet when I was away from her I couldn’t function. This happened a few times and ultimately I had to seek professional help with a clinical psychologist to deal with my past trauma. What became clear to me was that she was my 2nd chance that I never thought I deserved. And I always functioned better whenever she was in my life.
Well maybe I’m sharing too much, but I have now received a lot of healing and continue to be healed. And as the good book says, “love covers a multitude of sins”, and her love for sure is healing me daily. Ini I am looking forward to saying “I do” in a few weeks time. Thanks for the second chance.”
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