The musician claimed in an Instagram post that many bright and clever women are trapped in unhealthy relationships because they don't know how to fend for themselves without relying on a man.
A relationship, according to the rapper and make-up artist, is not something you enter for the money, and as a woman, you must determine whether you want a man with whom to experience this beautiful life or if you just want an ATM.
Eva then urged women to invest in self-improvement and self-building rather than relying on males for survival.
She went on to say that a relationship can only be "healthy" if both sides' financial interests are aligned.
“If you’re selling pu$$y, just say so..” this phrase “Men are providers” has got a lotta people growing a toxic sense of entitlement.
PSA: Men have needs too!
A man is happy to provide where he feels nurtured and cared for. It is in their nature. He cannot go against nature, all things being equal.
Let’s make relationships healthy again. Let’s make the “Self” healthy again. Take time out for you, heal yourself and the old wounds. Escape into your own sense of wonder and individualism. Do your own thing, make your own money.
So many bright, intelligent women are stuck in toxic unhealthy relationships simply because they know no other way to fend for themselves except through a man. I don’t want that kind of life for none of my Sistars.
God has deposited so much power and potential in you for you not to have your own way in this world. Let a man come in to add to what you’ve already got while you add unto him too. Amen?
PPS: if you feel stuck and not sure how to get about getting your own bag, I have learned a few tricks about making money online and I teach Women over here @creatorialz follow to learn how to turn what you know into income online.”
See some reactions from Instagram users below;
dbnaturals wrote; ‘All thanks to the patriarchy… I’m glad so many women are breaking free… PS: A lot of well-to-do women are also stuck in a toxic relationship, it’s actually a thing with your mind… If your mind is liberated you’ll never accept abuse as a broke or rich woman ’
sailorojoy wrote; ‘Abeg Make una rest!! there is no manual to a perfect relationship or how to get a perfect man. Everyone dey chop breakfast for this live matter na just God’s grace and direction we dey pray for to find the perfect one we would be compatible with and who would give us peace up mind. SIMPLE!!’
wendypeterschere wrote; ‘Nothing but facts, but nothing makes a woman who decides to stick in a toxic relationship because of money intelligent….I believe enlightened women know better’
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