Being married, having kids are not achievements – Nigerian TV Personality, Bukunmi

#jaiyeorie Bukunmi Adeaga-Ilori has put it upon herself to share her opinions on relationships and dating to her loved ones.
Bukunmi advised women on marriage, saying it is not an achievement. She added that having children is not an achievement. According to her, they are blessing only given by God.
“Being married is not an achievement! Having children is not an achievement either! These things are blessings! Only given by God! It has nothing to do with how intelligent, famous or successful you are!

And for these reasons you can’t make other people’s marriage or children your own standard or yardstick to measure your performance in these fields or your overall success level in life.
Nobody’s marriage is goals! I repeat, NOBODY’S MARRIAGE is goals!! God is the one scoring your own goals! FOCUS ON YOU!!!!”, she wrote.

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