Tara Fela-Durotoye, founder of Tara International, sat down with Betty Irabor in this episode of "Life Lessons", to discuss her experience when her husband played in the 2019 presidential election.
Tara recounts unpleasant experiences, such as online harassment and the betrayal she suffered when Fela Durotoye ran for presidential office, and how it affected them.
Tara admitted that she had "too many experiences" that left her "in tears, sad and overwhelmed." She said that during that period, she received feedback from the horrible things, close friends, she expected the support of they were saying and "it was traumatic."
She struggled with forgiving them and had to see a life coach about it afterwards. "I struggled with imperdonity for a year," he explained.
She narrated the exercise the coach suggested to help her forgive those friends who betrayed her. She was also kept unsure about how the presidential campaign affected her relationship with her husband and what was done to fix it. He said the experience has now made them stronger together and more in love.
Sharing the biggest lesson she learnt from thexperience, Tara said: “If you’re married to someone who is passionate about whatever it is they’re passionate about, stand with them, support them, but it’s going to be a true test of how deep and grounded your relationship is. So my advice to people who are married… In this time, before you have those hard moments, spend time in developing trust, compassion for one another, deep love for one another…”
Watch the video below:
📎 The key is : Learn how to BE HAPPY BY YOURSELF FIRST. Because a human being that is happy on his/her own will never settle to be miserable with someone else. When you find happiness on your own then you will be able to spread it and share it with someone else. ... CRITIC ALSO 🖋️ spill TEA ☕ Easy on Shade 💣
Tara recounts unpleasant experiences, such as online harassment and the betrayal she suffered when Fela Durotoye ran for presidential office, and how it affected them.
Tara admitted that she had "too many experiences" that left her "in tears, sad and overwhelmed." She said that during that period, she received feedback from the horrible things, close friends, she expected the support of they were saying and "it was traumatic."
She struggled with forgiving them and had to see a life coach about it afterwards. "I struggled with imperdonity for a year," he explained.
She narrated the exercise the coach suggested to help her forgive those friends who betrayed her. She was also kept unsure about how the presidential campaign affected her relationship with her husband and what was done to fix it. He said the experience has now made them stronger together and more in love.
Sharing the biggest lesson she learnt from thexperience, Tara said: “If you’re married to someone who is passionate about whatever it is they’re passionate about, stand with them, support them, but it’s going to be a true test of how deep and grounded your relationship is. So my advice to people who are married… In this time, before you have those hard moments, spend time in developing trust, compassion for one another, deep love for one another…”
Watch the video below:
📎 The key is : Learn how to BE HAPPY BY YOURSELF FIRST. Because a human being that is happy on his/her own will never settle to be miserable with someone else. When you find happiness on your own then you will be able to spread it and share it with someone else. ... CRITIC ALSO 🖋️ spill TEA ☕ Easy on Shade 💣
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