Demilade Roberts writes There's no such thing as a wife material. The term wife material is a construct of society that is measured by a woman’s behavior, her beliefs, her lack of ambition, her duties and "womanly" expectations. But all society demands from a man to be eligible for husbandship to be physically able to impregnate and have money to provide? Lol everybody is confused.
The key to finding a good woman is learning how to be a good man and then choosing to be one every single day. No matter what is thrown at you. Thats the real job as the head of the home. Not to be served food in front of the TV.
You have to be a man filled with Love, joy and peace. Someone bound by patience and infinite goodness.
Someome filled with faith and is faithful to no fault.
A gentle soul and most importantly have rock solid self control.
These are the qualities of a free spirit, what we classify in Church as the fruit of the Holy Spirit.
If you're looking for a wife and you haven't gone through a deep spiritual cleansing of your identity, dont ask any woman to marry you. You will fail in marriage. This has nothing to do with religion or this natural realm. You need God. Not your pastor or a religious establishment.
Jesus warned Men in the book of Matthew chapter 19; to not go into marriage if they aren't mature in the Grace of GOD and the fruit of the spirit. In the book of Genesis, it is men that God said it won't be good for, to be alone and therefore a Man will leave his father and Mother to be joined to his wife.
Valerie made sure I became that kind of Man first; before accepting me as her forever and I will eternally love her more than life itself.
She was so stunning this day I might just faint when she walks down the aisle.
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