Jennifer Lopez chic photo shoot for InStyle magazine.

Jennifer Lopez  thrice-married star, who has rekindled her relationship with dancer Casper Smart, told the magazine marriage is no longer a goal.

'I need to be happy on my own,' she explained. 'If someone fits into that, great. But if they don't, that's OK too. As girls, I think we are taught from a very young age that someone else is going to bring us our happiness.  I was waiting for Prince Charming. Everybody I met was going to be the guy I was going to spend my life with. And then you realize, 'I'm strong' I'm my own keeper, my own savior. That's been the journey for me,' she said. Aww